Crazy mornings, lunches, showers, homework, activities, and this is just the beginning of a new school year. No more staying up late or sleeping in, going to the beach, worrying about dinner, or better yet, not worrying if I didn’t make it to the grocery store. With the lazy days of summer behind me, it’s not the hustle and bustle of a new school year I dread but knowing what’s coming. It’s as predictable as a woman on birth control. I’m referring to the “Introducing Your Child” worksheet given by the teacher. This year, not only did I get this paper, but I’ve been asked to write an essay about my 7th grader. The premise of these “parent assignments” is to give the teacher a glimpse of our child through our eyes. Why? Let’s face it; the teacher already has an idea of my child based on his grades, test scores, his former teacher, and, be honest, the gossip in the teacher’s lounge. His favorite subject? That can change. I loved math until college, and a little class called Finite Math. I never worked so hard for a C in my life, especially in math. I struggled with reading and writing. Guess what—I’m an avid reader, and I enjoy writing. I don’t want my kid pigeonholed in elementary school or junior high. Teachers have the opportunity to bring out something that I may not know about my child. What upsets him at home should have no bearing on the teaching style. As his teacher, you get one small part of one chapter in his life; I’d like to see how you influence your section. Maybe he loved math last year, but you opened him up to the world of literature, Greek Mythology, or the galaxy. My relationship with my child is ours, and it’s up to you and him to develop yours. I do think it’s important you know if he has some funky allergies, eyesight issues, or any other tangibles that may affect his classroom behavior. But how I see my child and what I think doesn’t matter when it comes to his education. Here’s my promise to you. I promise to give you a child who will obey your rules, respect your authority, and be prepared to work. School is his job, too. As a parent in your class, I will support your goals and intentions. I also promise to not pre-judge you based on the gossip I’ve heard from other parents.
